老套到親暱

Goal:

• Understand different levels of relationship.
• Understand which level my cell group is in.
• Determine to grow to the next level.

Schedule:

• Each group prepares its own presentation (10 mins)
• Get together and do the presentations. Each group has 2 mins to present. (14 mins)
• Anthony, Lucia or Eddie will have a few questions to ask the groups. (a few mins)

1. What are the characteristics of a certain level of relationship?
2. What "elements" does a certain level of relationship lack of when it is being compared with the next higher level?

• Anthony, Lucia or Eddie will briefly explain the 5 levels of relationships with examples. Then one or two bible verses to conclude how important we need to have God involved in our cell group. (a few mins)

1. Level 1 - Common background
   e.g. Pastor Isaac and I go to the same church, but we rarely have any interaction.
2. Level 2 - 社交
   e.g. We get together once a while or regularly because we have common interests/hobbies or something in common.
3. Level 3 - 深交
   e.g. We can share our personal feelings.
4. Level 4 - 親暱
   e.g. We can share our struggles and weaknesses.
5. Level 5 - 靈裡結連
   e.g. We share freely. We trust each other. We care about the spiritual needs or growth of each other. I feel your pain when you get hurt.

• Divide into different groups again.

1. Discuss which level your cell group is in.
2. Discuss which level your cell group will be in after 6 months and what your group will do to achieve this.

Things to do:

• Randomly pick 5 items from your home and bring them with you to the fellowship.